tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-60443595708212746102024-02-28T18:42:38.549-05:00Positively PamelaLiving an authentic, positive, and fulfilling life using the law of attractionPamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.comBlogger136125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-74213123199771224492018-04-24T16:12:00.000-04:002018-06-17T09:54:18.318-04:00Can I Use the Law of Attraction To Win the Lottery?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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There are tons of success stories out there by people who say they used the law of attraction to win the lottery. Some people kept a very specific amount in mind and focused on having that amount, while others decided to simply be happy and were suddenly inspired to buy a lottery ticket which turned out to be a jackpot winner. I recently posted two videos (a part 1 and 2 of sorts) on my <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDqC7C8ijRPmw_JXNm1ZkwA?view_as=subscriber" target="_blank">YouTube channel</a> on this topic. So...is it possible to win the lottery using the law of attraction?<br />
<a name='more'></a>Yes and no. The answer to me isn't so simple. The thing is, when it comes to intending more money into your life there are so many ways that the universe can bring it to you. When I decided I wanted to <a href="http://www.positivelypamblog.com/2015/10/how-i-manifested-1000.html" target="_blank">manifest a thousand dollars</a> in addition to the regular salary I was getting at the time, the thought did cross my mind more than once that it might come from a lottery win. Despite buying a ticket here and there, the most I ever got back was a few bucks. I knew it was more important to remain open minded and let the universe determine the fastest way of bringing the money to me. It ended up coming via a payroll glitch that the outsourced payroll management company insisted had been fixed. That money certainly came in a way I never would have imagined in a hundred years, and I knew using the LOA had made it happen.<br />
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The other thing we need to keep in mind is maybe you're not a vibrational match to the massive lifestyle upheaval winning a large amount of money would create. It isn't always the blessing that many people imagine it to be; suddenly, you're inundated by acquaintances, coworkers, friends, family members, and strangers asking for a piece of the pie. Many lottery winners end up destitute in just a few years because they go bonkers freely spending the cash instead of saving and investing it. Frankly, I think winning money in smaller amounts is a lot less stressful.<br />
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Lastly, God may have bigger plans for you and wants you to use your talents to attract money. Personally, if I won so much I never had to lift a finger ever again I think it would prove unfulfilling and even a little depressing in the long run. We're all born with natural gifts and it's satisfying to use them to make a positive difference in the world.<br />
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Now having said all this, there definitely are things you can do to raise your vibration to that of winning the lottery or winning any amount of money. You can start with some positive affirmations...i.e. "I am a lottery winner", "I am a jackpot winner", "I love this huge amount of money that's been given to me", etc. You can also get into the feeling mode of feeling good and emulating what it would be like to actually have a humongous amount of money. Pretend you're shopping for the car of your dreams by looking at ones for sale online, or look at real estate websites at properties for sale that fit your definition of a dream home. Visualize contacting the car dealer or retailer for a viewing or test drive. Imagine writing out a check because you have the cash to pay in full.<br />
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When it comes to manifesting a lottery or gambling win, I prefer to approach it with the mindset that it's simply fun and entertaining and that I have as much a shot at winning as anyone else. And sometimes by taking that neutral, "whatever" type approach, that makes things manifest as well as any other technique.<br />
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Here's the two videos below that I made discussing using the LOA to manifest a lottery win.<br />
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Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-52954953050123794402018-02-14T16:56:00.003-05:002018-02-14T16:56:33.504-05:00Single On Valentine's Day? How To Feel Positive!Happy Valentine's Day, positive peeps!<br />
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I'm a little late in the day posting this, but yesterday I updated my YouTube channel with just my thoughts on the holiday and how one can stay positive when you're single and feeling a little down. In fact, I heard from my BFF yesterday who got a little triggered by some Valentine's Day imagery and said she was feeling inadequate. So, this is for everyone that may be feeling left out or not good enough on what I personally think is a hyped up, commercialized holiday. Pile on the self love and see the good in being single today. Just some thoughts that hopefully will give a chuckle and help see things from a different perspective...<br />
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My latest YouTube video talks about the notion of soulmates and some of the limiting beliefs I used to have about them. You see, like a lot of people, I grew up with the notion that there was only one perfect person for each human on the planet and some were lucky enough to find their soulmate while others...oh, well...just weren't meant to unite with them for whatever reason.<br />
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I wanted to make this video because I know there's a lot of people out there that are trying to manifest a specific person back. Many believe this person is the only one that can be their soulmate. But the truth is, we don't get just one shot, one person during our lifetime that can be defined as a soulmate. There are many potential matches for us. <br />
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It was a relief when I learned the truth about soulmates, thanks to a book by Arielle Ford called <i>The Soulmate Secret</i> (I'm pretty sure I mentioned it on here before.)<br />
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Hopefully, for those of you with particular beliefs about soulmates this will make some sense...<br />
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Happy belated New Year!<br />
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Man, it's been a while since I've updated this blog. The <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDqC7C8ijRPmw_JXNm1ZkwA/videos?view_as=subscriber" target="_blank">YouTube channel</a> has pretty much taken over from it, but I'm making it a goal to update the site with more written content. Today I thought I'd write a bit more about my <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eu9jK_6jwH4" target="_blank">penny manifesting experiment</a> and how we can make any manifestation come as quickly and easily as a penny.<br />
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One of the reasons I decided to experiment with manifesting pennies is because I needed to regain my confidence in the universe again after a period of stagnation. (Well, and friendly competition may have had a little something to do with it as well, as a friend kept finding pennies...sometimes when we were out and about.)<br />
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Manifesting something that feels trivial is a great way to dip your toes into the law of attraction, or get your bearings again when you need a confidence booster. Since I started the intention in October, I've manifested nearly a dollar's worth of pennies and dimes (I still haven't manifested a quarter yet, but I'm working on it.)<br />
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And it happened so easily. I simply stated in my head to the universe during a walk one October day that I was going to attract a penny. I felt very briefly what it would feel like to find a penny and pick it up. Then I let it go and pretty much forgot about it. Towards the end of my walk I happened to be looking down at the road and saw a brand new, shiny penny just waiting to be picked up. Keep in mind I took my walk around my residential neighborhood -- not exactly an area where you'd just find lost money on a regular basis. It's not like I was walking through a store or a parking lot. But that didn't matter, and I didn't care where the penny was going to appear; I just knew the universe had my back.<br />
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Now, you may be saying to yourself, "Well that's all well and good, Pam, but how do I manifest the 'big' things...things that are way more important than pennies?"<br />
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And the answer is...the same exact way.<br />
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You set an intention, you feel the feelings of what it would be like to have that manifestation, and then you let it go and forget about it. When you're not even expecting it, that's when the manifestation appears.<br />
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The problem is, when it comes to attracting "big" things, and potentially life-changing things (like a relationship, job, or a very significant amount of money) we delay the process because we have all of these hang-ups...i.e. negative beliefs about them. Or we have this doubt that anything could possibly be orchestrated for us and that it's just an impossible dream. We ruminate on all of this and every time we do, it's like hitting the brakes in a car on the way to our destination.<br />
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Esther Hicks, when she's channeling Abraham Hicks, has said many times that it's just as easy to manifest a castle as it is to manifest a button. The steps are exactly the same. We just need to clear up all of our limiting beliefs and resistance and be able to let the desire go and know and trust the universe to deliver it perfectly. We need to believe that this manifestation is possible for us, as easy and possible as a penny.<br />
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We need to treat every manifestation as trivial as a penny. Feel what it would feel to have it, and then let go, let go, and let go. Focus on the present moment and go about enjoying life.<br />
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Believe me, it's something that I still find myself working on from time to time, but I'm getting closer. By the way, I keep the found pennies and other change in a compartment in the jewelry divider on my bureau. I look at it whenever I need the reminder of my power as a co-creator and that the universe always delivers.<br />
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Happy manifesting!Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-91253742766560957072017-11-10T22:09:00.001-05:002017-11-10T22:09:20.974-05:00The Joy Of Manifesting Lost ChangeAs usual, I'm way behind on sharing my latest YouTube videos here on PP. A fairly new one that I posted a few weeks ago has to do with manifesting pennies and lost change in general. Now, this is a great little manifesting experiment that you can do if your faith is faltering with the "bigger" manifestations. I was feeling a bit that way recently and decided to have some fun: specifically, I wanted to manifest a penny...and I wanted to manifest it while out on a walk around my neighborhood this particular day.<br />
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Part of what prompted this manifesting desire as well is the fact that my friend Patti manifests pennies like there's no tomorrow. She's <i>always</i> finding them...even at nighttime recently after having dinner, she happened to spot one on the ground...<i>in the dark</i>. She believes they are a sign from her late dad (<i>Pennies From Heaven</i>, anyone?)<br />
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Anyways, I decided that it was my turn to manifest a penny. In a place where I've never seen any lost money in all the years I've been walking it. Did I succeed? Well, you'll just have to watch the video below to find out. And in the days and weeks that have followed since making this video, I have manifested a total of 25 cents...five pennies plus two dimes. All lost coins that I spotted in stores and in parking lots.<br />
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My next goal is to manifest a quarter. :) Have fun with this!<br />
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Only there is a distinct difference between the two, which is what today's blog/video post is about (and by the way, I am still behind on mentioning every video I've been posting for the past month or so. You can catch up with any you've missed <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDqC7C8ijRPmw_JXNm1ZkwA/featured?view_as=subscriber" target="_blank">here</a>.)</div>
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In case you need a refresher in affirmations, these are simply statements you make to yourself and that you choose to believe to see evidence of them manifesting into your life. I had never really heard or them and definitely never used any until I read Louise Hay's book "You Can Heal Your Life" ten years ago. </div>
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So here's the latest PP video on the difference between these two affirmations, and why the distinction is so important (hint: one keeps you grounded while the other propels you to what you want.)</div>
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Hey guys, I'm WAY behind on getting my YouTubes shared here plus posts in general. About a week and a half ago my mother ended up in the hospital and required some minor surgery. She's back home and recovering nicely, but as you can imagine it threw my schedule way off course. I had already taken her to four consecutive doctor's visits before she admitted herself to the ER and had been driving back and forth into the city to get to the hospital.<br />
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Anyways, all should be good now but you can always catch up with my <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDqC7C8ijRPmw_JXNm1ZkwA" target="_blank">YouTube channel and the latest videos here</a>.<br />
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More to come. I'll try to post some of the newest videos I have done and their relevant topics on this site this week.Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-30362962947728355692017-08-16T15:24:00.001-04:002017-08-16T15:24:07.878-04:00Should I See a Psychic If I Use the Law Of Attraction?Hey folks, I'm way behind on posting my YouTube videos to the blog (you can always see the latest ones <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDqC7C8ijRPmw_JXNm1ZkwA" target="_blank">here</a>.) In this post's video, I'm talking about going to psychics and how they can interfere with law of attraction success. I believe I wrote a blog post on this very topic about a year ago, but wanted to make a complimentary video.<br />
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Long story short, I think you need to be careful about going to a tarot card reader, psychic, etc. to "check in on" how your manifestation is coming along. Because if these folks tell you what you don't want to hear, it can be crushing, and by looking for validation you're sending a message to the Universe that you don't trust it to work things out for you. And frankly, since learning this stuff I believe we create our future and destiny by what we're putting out there into the Universe. In my personal experience I just haven't experienced one that ever predicted anything accurate that came true for me, anyway.<br />
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Here's my take on the topic...<br />
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I'm 10 days or so now into sticking with Agnes' meditations and messages and all I can say is I truly feel like I'm back to where I was a little more than a couple of years ago. Completely at peace, leaving things up the universe, and just focusing on improving myself and staying happy and away from everyone else's business. I also manifested another on-going, fun, freelance writing gig where I have flexibility to work on as many assignments as I like until I manifest a full-time job.<br />
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I hope everyone had a lovely weekend. By the way, last weekend I finally went back to visit the submarine that I had talked about manifesting earlier in the summer. It was so cool. :)<br />
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<br />Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-28042181855457740042017-08-02T16:49:00.000-04:002017-08-02T16:50:32.622-04:00Self Love and the YouTube Channel Changing My Limiting BeliefsHey guys, it's been nearly a month since I've updated my YouTube channel with a new video, and today's video is a precursor of a longer one coming soon. As many of you know, I've been trying to determine for two years now why unavailable men have been a manifestation given pretty much my whole life. I know I've made some posts and videos before explaining the reasons why I think it happened, until I started watching a wonderful channel last week by a woman named <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCf0L-tjSxf6IuHV_1s_r9vA" target="_blank">Agnes Vivarelli</a>. Long story short, I can't stop watching.<br />
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Most of Agnes' channel is about how to manifest an ex (or as she likes to call them, a special person or your person) back into your life. I know what you're thinking; is Pam looking to manifest "Mr. S" (my nickname for the married guy) back into her life? Well, yes and no. I'll explain more in the longer follow-up video. You see, I was still feeling some lingering resentment about the whole situation...yes, even two years after the whole thing happened. Since I had sent emails that went unanswered, I felt that I didn't get the proper closure after my wounds had been reopened.<br />
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And every time something like this has happened, it reinforces negative beliefs I've carried since junior high in regards to guys...I'm not good enough to be someone's girlfriend, not worthy, not special enough...and if I had been, then I would have been married by the time I was in my 20s or 30s (I'm pretty sure I talked about this belief in my last video.)<br />
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Of course, it isn't true. It's just a dumb belief that got formed while young. But I'm working on releasing it, as well as some other limiting beliefs in this area, thanks to Agnes' channel. I also finally after all of this time forgave Mr. S for good. You can't attract anything until you stop feeling resentment and anger towards anyone you felt did you wrong...and until your self love for yourself is solid.<br />
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Agnes has a lot of fascinating videos about being secure and giving yourself love whether someone else it giving it to you or not. Her meditations are also very freeing; after listening to one of her self love meditations last week before falling asleep, I finally started to have dreams again after a month of not having or remembering any.<br />
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Anyways, here's a quick video about what I've learned so far...more to come soon!<br />
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I just joined a private Facebook group yesterday started by a law of attraction teacher I follow when I saw the following query posted by a fellow member: for those of you over 40, how do you make new friends?<br />
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She then ended her inquiry with this statement: creating real friendships at this age seems difficult.<br />
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It seems to me that she has some limiting beliefs that need to be cleared up, especially in the area of friendship. And she wasn't the only one; while several other members (including myself) chimed in with our success stories, several others said they had given up on the idea of making new friends, particularly after a certain age, which was a little sad to hear. Her question and statement also inspired a much needed blog post for this subject, so here we go!<br />
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In a nutshell, manifesting a good friend or friends is no different than manifesting anything else into your life...but just like manifesting anything, if you have limiting beliefs and resistance regarding friendships, you need to kick them to the curb.<br />
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Just listen to what she told us, that she believed to be true..."creating real friendships at this age seems difficult." That's a negative limiting belief, based on what she has recently experienced or experienced in the past. But there's no reason why anyone can't make a new friend at any age. Most of my mother's friends are ones she made within the past decade (keep in mind she's 87) when we started to attend a different church in town.<br />
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I went through some manifesting steps myself to attract my bestie Patti into my life as well as other gals I see far less regularly, but get together with on occasion, and several acquaintances through my Meetup group. Like anyone else, I've gone through ups and downs with friends and have lost friendships or just had people drift away, which happens often in life. But oddly enough, it didn't cement any negative beliefs in me in regards to manifesting friends...I'd had success doing it before, and knew I could do it again, and possibly attract people that may even end up being better friends than previous ones I had before.<br />
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For a while I wasn't meeting anyone in the original Meetup group that I ran that I wanted to do stuff with outside of the group. Or if I did, they had their own busy life and after a few social outings they just kind of vibrated away. I had no problem with this as I knew they weren't on my vibration, and that I would find new gal pals that were.<br />
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Then another Meetup group for women in my town needed an organizer after the woman that started it stepped down. I was already a member of it and stepped up to take it over. When attendance for the second "new" one seemed to be much better than my first one, I disbanded my original group (but not before letting all members know they could join the new one, and many of them already belonged to it.) Patti joined it, signed up for everything I organized, and after the first couple of events we just hit it off and started planning fun things to do outside of the group. She's everything I want in a friend including the fact that she enjoys chit chatting on the phone and catching up on a weekly basis.<br />
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So here's what I did, and the steps that I would recommend to anyone that wants to manifest meaningful new friendships into their life.<br />
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<b>1. Forgive and Forget</b><br />
<b><br /></b>A friendship is a form of a relationship, and thus it can really affect our emotions. Before you do anything, now's the time to clean the slate, let go of grudges and the past, and forgive any former friends (and yourself) for anything they did that you feel was wrong. LOA teachers stress this when wanting to attract a new romantic partner as well. If you learned a lesson that you can carry with you so any part you played in the friendship falling apart won't happen again, even better. But now's the time to wish any former friends well in your heart and let them go. The past is done; you're living in the present, so focus on living in it with a sense of renewal. And just because something happened to you in the past doesn't mean it's going to repeat itself.<br />
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<b>2. Get Rid of Any Negative Beliefs</b><br />
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Most our of limiting beliefs seem to stem from observations and reactions we've made to less than happy experiences in our lives. If you think it's impossible to make friends after a certain age or if you believe you're an unlikeable person, then you need to drop these beliefs as they definitely won't serve you. Not once during my own process did I think I'd never find good friends again.<br />
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<b>3. Try Not to Feel Lonely During the Friendless Period</b><br />
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You'll go through a period now when you probably won't manifest a strong new friendship right away, so start the friendship manifesting by being a good friend to yourself. If you feel lonely you'll only continue to attract feelings of loneliness, so try not to feel lonely if you can help it. Instead, be grateful for your alone time and use it to nurture your self love and catch up on hobbies you've been neglecting. Exercise, cook a new recipe, watch movies, finish a book you've been reading, love your pets, take care of yourself, and anything else that makes you feel good. There's an old adage that you can't feel lonely if you enjoy being with yourself, so work on that first and learn to be happy before the manifestation occurs.<br />
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<b>4. Write Down (and Believe) Positive Friendship Affirmations</b><br />
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Grab a journal or a laptop when you're feeling upbeat, and make a list of friendship affirmations. They can include anything from "People enjoy my company" and "I'm a caring, compassionate friend that is respected by others" to "A fulfilling new friendship with the right person now brightens my social life." You can write them out and/or say them out loud, but the most important part is to <i><b>believe</b></i> that what you are writing and stating is true, and an undeniable fact!<br />
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<b>5. Consider Your Friend's Attributes and How This Friendship Feels</b><br />
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Here's the fun part which really creates the manifesting...what kind of friend do you really want? What kinds of activities do you want to share with him/her? Be honest with yourself. If you're an easy going type that isn't into drinking and staying out late, but would prefer to do fun things during the day, then focus on feeling that kind of company and energy. If you like to do physical activities like hiking and riding your bike and would like someone to share this with you, then feel what that would feel like. The LOA isn't just about thinking; it's about feeling. It's the feeling that creates the vibration that causes people and circumstances to manifest into your life.<br />
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Likewise, whatever attributes you'd like in a friend, I think it makes sense that you need to possess those attributes yourself. If you want other people to accept you for everything that you are, then you need to accept your friends for everything they are as well.<br />
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<b>6. Take Inspired Action</b><br />
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My inspired action was to take over the second Meetup group and then just post events that I wanted to do and that sounded like fun. You may be inspired to join (or organize) your own Meetup group or maybe join a new yoga studio, or a support or professional group. Whatever you do, do things that YOU want to do and that you get enjoyment from. Meetup is a great place to start and has groups in everything from simple social events to niche activities such as golf and foreign language enthusiasts. There's literally something for everyone in Meetup. Volunteering is also another great way to meet people and do something good at the same time.<br />
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One more thing...I really didn't spend TOO much time overthinking and over feeling the new friendship. I felt it a few times and felt good, then let it go and assumed it was on its way. In the meantime decided to enjoy life, whether I was doing something by myself or with the Meetup group. I'm finding out more and more (much like the <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=584h58OO1gY" target="_blank">submarine manifestation story</a> I told a few videos back) that things we kind of think about lightly and have no resistance to totally show up a lot faster.<br />
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Have patience, have faith, and know that the right person or people will appear when you're enjoying yourself and not expecting it. Happy friendship manifesting!Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-86544605481629237492017-07-12T20:13:00.002-04:002017-07-12T20:16:36.884-04:00Why Some People Lose It and Seek RevengeI filmed this video over the weekend but haven't had a chance to announce it on the blog until today. My mother and I had to put our oldest cat to sleep on Monday so I just laid low on getting much done the past couple of days. This week's video is about what I feel is happening with so many people in the news lately that seem to be "losing it" and taking revenge on a former lover, employer, or other person or people they believe did them wrong. There's a lot to be said for being resilient especially in today's world and taking setbacks in stride and keeping an abundance-focused mindset. Anyways, here's the latest video from my <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDqC7C8ijRPmw_JXNm1ZkwA" target="_blank">YouTube channel</a>, and I hope you like my crazy ass alien/insect sunglasses!<br />
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<br />Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-678893962548689852017-06-30T15:06:00.000-04:002017-06-30T15:06:22.609-04:00A Common Mistake People Make With the Law of AttractionHappy Independence Day weekend! I actually filmed this video last week but am just mentioning it on the blog now; I had a very busy week with my freelance jobs getting work completed before the long holiday weekend. This video is just about a common mistake a lot of people make with the LOA...specifically, it's one that newbies make. Long story short, the LOA is a lot like working out and eating healthy: you can't do it for a couple of days, or a week, and expect everything in your life to magically transform overnight. Nor can you expect to go from a size 16 to a size 8 after a week of eating healthy and exercising regularly. It takes commitment and time to start seeing improvement and results.<br />
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Hope everyone has an awesome Independence Day and weekend!<br />
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<br />Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-2110282735272587022017-06-19T15:48:00.001-04:002017-06-19T15:49:43.189-04:00My Cool Father's Day Weekend Manifestation StoryHappy Monday, everyone! The Universe is always reflecting and responding to what you are putting out there, always. This week's new video is about something cool that I experienced over the Father's Day weekend and quite honestly, this manifestation blew my mind! I won't give any of it away here in writing except to say it's kind of an unusual one, but here's the video if you'd like to hear what happened to me. Enjoy! P.S. I hope all of you enjoyed your Father's Day, whether you are a dad yourself or have one still with you.<br />
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<br />Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-49413571265600860222017-06-06T21:35:00.000-04:002017-06-06T21:35:07.987-04:00How To Manifest Using A JournalHey everybody, I was able to email myself a quick video I did on how to use a journal to manifest. You can watch that below. I've since tried emailing myself other short videos but they're not going through for some reason. I'm focusing on finding a solution and am sure the universe will point me in the right direction, but I have the feeling I'm long overdue for an upgrade to my phone. I can no longer download most apps for it because nothing's compatible with it.<br />
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In the meantime, here's a video on using a journal to manifest; such a great law of attraction tool and one I haven't been using enough lately.<br />
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I'm feeling so wonderful these days; I've really been focusing on the feelings of being in a new relationship that's right for me this time and I keep seeing repeating/recurring numbers which to me is a sign that I'm in alignment (this is what most LOA teachers say it means.) I'm trusting the universe and will take inspired action when it strikes.<br />
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I've also started to work on updating my LinkedIn profile, resume, portfolio, etc. I really want a writing-related job, so I need to put some emotion into that area as well.<br />
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Enjoy the rest of your week, stay positive, and I hope to have another video posted soon!<br />
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Hey guys, happy Memorial Day weekend! I have some bad news on the YouTube front...my old USB connector/adapter had frayed wires so I had to toss it...and two brand new USB connectors are not being recognized by my laptop. Oddly enough, one can be read by my ancient desktop iMac...but when I try to copy and paste a video file to the desktop it freezes halfway through.<br />
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So, it appears the universe is telling me it's time to upgrade my laptop and mobile phone -- both are ancient by today's tech standards. I tried everything that I could including trying to email myself the file through my phone but the size is too big. It's back to writing blog posts until I figure out what I can upgrade to that's within my budget. I'll just keep telling myself that everything is working out for me.<br />
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Today's blog post (which I had recorded a video on) is about how to unmanifest someone from your life. I actually recently had success with unmaniftesting not one, but two people that were bugging me -- but I'm going to tell you a bit about only one of them, which was a woman in my Meetup group.<br />
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First of all, if you can remember the golden rule of the law of attraction...that what you focus on expands...then you're halfway there to solving your problem. Unfortunately for most of us when there's someone that's pestering the crap out of us, whether it's a coworker, family member, or another person we're forced to have contact with, our tendency is to ruminate on the pest and complain about him or her to our friends or anyone that will listen. That's the wrong thing to do.<br />
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So here's what I did that seemed to work...keep in mind if someone is truly stalking you, I wouldn't mess around; I'd go to the authorities. But this is simply a story about someone being a pain and overstepping boundaries.<br />
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I recently had to deal quite a few times with a woman in my Meetup group and every time she bugged me, I'd immediately complain to my good friend Patti about it. Patti belongs to my group as well and also cannot stand the woman in question, so naturally she'd add a lot of fuel to the fire.<br />
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What did this woman do that was so annoying? Well I won't list everything, but the first time I had a one-on-one conversation with her, which was at the second event of mine that she attended, I immediately sensed that something was off. She claimed to have left school at age 16 and worked in nearly every industry you could think of, and bragged (or at least, it seemed to come across as bragging) about all of these skills that she supposedly was quite experienced in. Most of them had to do with the computer which was ironic because when it came to setting up her own Meetup event on my group's website, she was quite clueless even when I emailed her screenshots with step-by-step directions.<br />
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Some people are just not on our vibration or wavelength, and this woman was one of them. The first time I met her, which was late last summer, she actually seemed pretty laid back and chilled. Then when she attended an event of mine in January it was like something had changed. She was simply exhausting to listen to and told me her entire work history at lunch after a museum visit, and it seemed she was bragging about a lot of stuff. I personally felt that she was insecure and looking to validate herself with others' approval. At a brunch event a month later she immediately launched into her work history again but this time with several other women listening while she rambled on for what seemed like at least ten minutes. She even told us that she was interviewing for jobs that paid $100K or more -- what? Who does that?<br />
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She texted me, left me voicemail messages, and strange comments on event pages. She even found me on Facebook and sent me a friend request, which I ignored. It seemed she was looking for someone to hold her hand and organize her events for her, which is not how I run my group. Every time it happened, I'd email Patti or we'd vent in person about how ridiculous this was getting.<br />
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Finally I said that we weren't going about this the right way. If we wanted to have minimal contact with this woman, then we needed to stop talking about her so much and focus on having meaningful conversations with other members that were easy going, secure, and pleasant to talk to.<br />
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And that's what happened. There was one event, a public dance, that she never showed up for, and we ended up having a great time with the other people at our table.<br />
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The next event she was RSVPd for was the Kentucky Derby party from a couple of weeks ago. Patti was dreading it and so was I, but I reminded myself to focus on everything else. I told the universe that we'd have a great time regardless, meet some nice people, and that maybe it could help this woman find another group that jived better with her. Honestly, I wished the best for her...everyone happy, everybody cool. No problems.<br />
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Well, she showed up very late to the party...maybe 45 minutes before the race was due to start. She had a gentleman with her and when she introduced him to us at the bat we were floored...it was her fiancé.<br />
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Keep in mind, she'd been single during the other events she attended just a few months ago, so this happened really FAST. On the way home I told Patti that I knew everything would work out; she'd be so consumed with planning a wedding and married life that I doubted she'd ever return for another event. Who knows; she may even end up moving away.<br />
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It wasn't easy to ignore the fact that she was attending the event, but I tried my best and perhaps that worked; that, and asking the universe to work everything out so that she'd be busy with other activities to occupy her time. I honestly do wish her well and hope everything works out for her...and now everyone is happy!<br />
<br />Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-48303827537675599192017-05-11T15:01:00.001-04:002017-05-11T15:01:50.570-04:00Money Manifestation Success!<span style="font-size: large;">Happy almost-Friday for all you full-time folks! There's a new video up on the PP channel and this time I'm sharing some money manifestation success I had last week (yippie!) I can't believe I left out the best part of the third story, however...I went to a Kentucky Derby party with my Meetup group on Saturday, had a blast, and as we were leaving the venue saw some other patrons snapping pictures of the sky. A beautiful double rainbow had appeared just as we were leaving (I always think of rainbows as God's reminder that He's always with us; something I read years ago.) A perfect ending to a perfect day!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Anyways, a rambled on a bit here as usual but here's what happened to me last week. I'll make another video soon on specific tips and tricks you can try to create the feelings of wealth and abundance.</span><br />
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Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-76316538540682962682017-04-27T13:04:00.002-04:002017-04-27T13:04:19.743-04:00New Video Post: Focus On What You Want and Leave Out the Unwanted Stuff to Manifest!<span style="font-size: large;">So here's the set-up for today's video, which I only half explained in the actual clip. Yesterday I was on the YouTube channel for a law of attraction coach that I follow that shared a new video about a client's success story. Said client was female and had set an intention to attract a relationship. Shortly afterwards, she met a great guy that she really hit it off with only to discover that he had a girlfriend.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I went off a little bit on this coach -- how could he possibly call this a success story when the guy she attracted was unavailable? He explained that she was going to fine-tune her vibration and journal about it to tweak things and that it was still a success story. This didn't make sense to me because after all, I had attracted a guy with pretty much everything I loved except he was married.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Then last night I was on Lisa Concepcion's channel (I just adore her and her energy) and watched a video she made a few months ago about the importance of focusing on the wanted aspects of something and forgetting all about the crap. And then it clicked with me.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I've realized that for over a year now I've been beating this drum (with friends and family) of "I attracted a married man" and had been focusing on that for way too long. But the truth is I couldn't see his good qualities and the ones that really resonated with what I want in a partner because I was still angry, hurt, and resentful. I still had some forgiving and letting go to do, and that took a few months.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Now that I'm back to thinking neutrally about the situation and feeling as happy as I was two years ago, I knew that I would be able to finally appreciate "S" and what was RIGHT and FELT GOOD about him and forget about the 3% of him or so that was undesirable.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">What we focus on expands and continues to show up in our lives. So, from now on I'm choosing to focus on the wanted in a relationship and let the other stuff just kind of fade away.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Once I realized this yesterday it was like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. I have so much energy back, too...had a great workout yesterday with no desire to nap in the afternoon. My body physically feels lighter then it has in years -- that's the effect of letting go of unwanted crap and the past and raising your vibration!</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So here's the video, and I'm grateful to have reached a point where I can finally feel happy and appreciative that I attracted S instead of wallowing in why it had to end. I still don't know for sure what I've been putting out there that attracted the unavailability but I've been working on myself and letting go of a lot of limiting beliefs these past few months, and I just KNOW now that there is an awesome man out there for me that has EVERY important quality, including being in a great place in his life and available to bring another person into it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I've rambled on long enough here -- here's the video.</span><br />
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<br />Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-19707842434759461762017-04-26T13:52:00.002-04:002017-04-26T13:52:39.766-04:00Love Yo' Damn Self!<span style="font-size: large;">Instead of posting a new video this week I thought I'd share this particular one that I discovered on YouTube last night, by a law of attraction and life coach I just love named Lisa Concepcion. Lisa's energy is so enthusiastic and engaging that when I watch her videos I can't help but think how much I'd love to be friends with her, or someone like her. She just has such a high vibing zest for life and I find her messages very inspirational. If you're accustomed to more low-key people like me making videos then you're going to find her cranked up by comparison, but I really love the way she delivers this message about the importance of self love and how it will help you navigate your way around any BS in life. Indeed, having respect for yourself and knowing that you're worthy is the key. Enjoy, and I promise I'll be back soon with a video of my own.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Hey positive people, long time no post! I hope to have another video up by next week but in the meantime, here's something I was thinking about today: the law of attraction is a lot like working out, or sticking to a health/fitness regimen. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">That's because the number one mistake most people make with the LOA is they give up on it way too soon. They decide to think positively for a day or two (not realizing most of the time that it isn't the thinking but it's the feeling and their beliefs that cause manifestations) and when they don't get the results they want practically overnight, they say "this doesn't work" and they give up on it. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">In a similar vein, how many times have you heard of someone that decided their going to work out, make their eating habits healthier, and then revert back to their old ways after a week or so (or even less)? They think results are going to come immediately and that their body will magically transform right away and of course, it doesn't happen that way.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">It takes time. Likewise, it takes time to see improvement in your life from LOA. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Both warrant a lifestyle change. The LOA really is a change in attitude about life on a daily basis, and it can't be temporary if you want to always be growing and improving your life. Just as you can't temporarily eat healthy and exercise and then decide to fall back into your old ways if you want a fit and healthy body. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">And both can feel strange when you first start doing them. One is a stretching of the mind and utilizing areas you've never used before. The other is a stretching of he body and utilizing muscles you may never have worked before. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I bring it up because I had an off day today and kind of fell off the wagon. Now granted, I've been practicing LOA for a decade now so I definitely have been sticking to it. However, I still need help removing blocks in the relationship department and that's where I got a little stuck today. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">But tomorrow is a new day, and I'll pick myself up, remind myself that every day presents a new opportunity to get back on track and keep pushing forward. Just as someone would get back on the exercise and healthy eating routine after binging. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">You have to stick with it, and you have to make that commitment. No, you probably won't see results overnight. Many of us have too much resistance and blocks in certain areas that need to be removed. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">But just as there's a satisfaction to fitting into a particular dress size or seeing a target weight on the scale, there's immense satisfaction in being able to live the kind of life that you want. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">And so, I stick to it...stretching the mind and learning new tips and techniques every day. </span>Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-42424346615179253272017-04-06T13:07:00.001-04:002017-04-06T13:07:16.247-04:00The Power of Saying No<span style="font-size: large;">Hey guys, it's taken me a while to get a new video blog post up because I actually got sick again this week, although I'm now at the tail end of it. Today's video comes on the heels of something that recently happened to me, so I wanted to talk about why it's good to say "no" to certain people and situations that are just going to take advantage of you. Saying no to something that isn't going to serve your highest good is never a bad thing and sometimes we need to do it to have respect for ourselves. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Anyways, sorry if I ramble a bit in this video, but I thought it would be a good topic to address (and I also needed to vent.)</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I was on YouTube this morning when I saw the following comment left by a man on a channel I follow that is published by a woman in her 50s. The particular video he commented on was about being a single women over 50. (Keep in mind the woman that publishes this particular channel really rocks; she's very attractive, has a positive mindset, fit and posts a lot of videos on staying in shape after 50.)</span><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">"Janet, after trying dating online, I'm going to be a spoiler' of sorts and tell women over 50, we men are hard to find because WE DON'T WANT TO BE FOUND. That is not to say we don't like women. We are a people that have learned to stay away from women and the 3rd wave of feminism. Now to counter 'missing' a woman. It's just a simple case of calling a pro like ordering a pizza. That pro doesn't come with demands of alimony, house payments, child support and a butt shaped like an '80's Buick.I sleep better at night now because , as it turns out, men age like wine and women age like milk and I no longer worry about being 'accepted' or rejected by the women of declining sexual market value. Women try to console themselves with little'Mr. Binky' or whatever and tell themselves they're not alone on Valentine's Day. Well, neither am I..... I paid good money ($400K) to live 300 miles away from my ex. A donation of 500-1000 per night is a bargain in comparison"</span></i><br />
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Damn. Does this dude have some serious bitter, negative, limiting beliefs, or what? I'm not going to judge him on employing prostitutes because frankly, he's in no good place to be dating anyway. But I couldn't resist leaving a reply and explaining that his negative beliefs are not serving him, and that not all women are gold diggers (nor does every woman past the page of 50 have a "butt shaped like an '80s Buick").</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I get where he's coming from, though. He clearly went through a miserable marriage and divorce and got hosed in court. But it's really unfair to paint all women with the same brushstroke that he has...and even more importantly, it's simply not true.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">After all, he was leaving it on the YouTube channel of a well adjusted, attractive, 50-something woman that isn't looking to take a man for all that he's worth! And he attracted the reply of a 45 year-old woman that has these qualities. ;)</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">And the sad thing is, because he has this kind of mindset, these types of women will continue to be attracted to him, just reinforcing what he believes.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">It can be a very difficult thing to get over people that hurt us, and move past the temptation to paint everyone else in their gender as bad. I think quite often it's done because it's a coping mechanism and a way of explaining our victimhood.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">However, I believe that any limiting belief we have can be debunked. We just have to remain open minded and ask the Universe for evidence.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Case in point...I remember decades ago there was a common belief in our society that men, in general, didn't like cats. Men liked dogs and women liked cats. It was a common refrain...from comedians...in books...on TV shows and in movies. And I used to hear it from other women as well.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Then I learned about the law of attraction a decade ago. And at some point I tested the belief (which I will admit I probably believed a little myself, despite growing up with a father and brother that loved cats.) I simply told myself that there must be guys out there that love cats...if it was possible, then it had to be so. And I simply believed that the Universe would show me proof.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Proof did come...in droves. After social media and the popularity of cat videos took off, I noticed lots of photos of attractive men with cats. I see YouTube videos all of the time by loving, male cat owners (I'm a big fan of Cole and Marmalade...and their cute "cat daddy", Chris!) My mother and I came across cat behaviorist Jackson Galaxy and his show <i>My Cat from Hell</i> on Animal Planet a few years ago. I'm connected to guys on Facebook that proudly show off photos of their cats. Guys are regular adopters of cats as shown by a few rescue organizations that I follow on Facebook. Furthermore, male cat owners are proud to be cat men. I could go on and on, but you get the picture.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The old widely-held belief that men don't like cats is history, and simply BS.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">What limiting beliefs would you like to let go of? Think of the opposite, and tell the Universe it's giving you proof. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I probably won't have a new video up this week so in the meantime, here's some food for thought via a quick written blog post: there's no crying in manifesting. Crying won't change your situation, but feeling better will. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">That's not to say that I don't approve of crying or believe that you should hold your emotions back. Sometimes there's actually nothing more cleansing then a good cry. In fact, I had one myself the other day during a very brief "down" period (the 30 day happiness experiment that I embarked upon was very challenging at times!) Some LOA experts believe that crying is a way of releasing resistance so in that case, you should release away! </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">However, if you want to bring about change to a situation and manifest something then you just don't want to let that sadness linger for days on end. Because think about it: you need to act "as if" to help things appear in your life. And so...</span><br />
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<b><i><span style="font-size: large;">If you had the love of your life cuddling on the couch next to you, you wouldn't be crying and moping.</span></i></b><br />
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<b><i><span style="font-size: large;">If you had that shiny sports car you've always wanted in your garage, you wouldn't be crying and moping. </span></i></b><br />
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<b><i><span style="font-size: large;">If you had the career of your dreams, you wouldn't be crying and moping.</span></i></b><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Hell, no. You'd be happy! (Or ecstatic, or joyful, or excited, or whatever emotions come to mind when you get into the feeling mode of having your desire(s) already.)</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This is why when I have those brief moments when I find myself in the "dark valley", I don't stay there too long anymore. I have the cry, I start to feel better, and I keep walking so to speak in the direction I want to be. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">To all of my readers in the northeast, stay safe during this week's blizzard. Also, dare I admit this? It may be a manifestation success story for me. I asked the Universe for another snowstorm so I could go cross country skiing again before the touring center's season ends on March 20. Yikes. I swear I only asked for just a few inches so that it would reopen; not a major blizzard with high winds and a foot and a half of snow -- be careful what you wish for!!!</span>Pamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18122952408610512684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044359570821274610.post-33888401579812514802017-03-06T14:31:00.001-05:002017-03-06T20:47:39.164-05:00Collagen Supplements Review<span style="font-size: large;">In today's new video blog post I'm actually not talking about the LOA, but about my personal experience taking collagen supplements for the past few weeks. I had been hearing about them for a while now; they're supposed to do anti-aging wonders for your skin, hair, and nails and I was curious to give them a try for myself. If you'd like to know more about these "magic" pills and find out if they really work, you can watch my review below!</span><br />
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