My Improving Vibration

Happy Memorial Day weekend!

So...something happened to me today that hasn't happened in quite a while. A man struck up a conversation with me. 

Earth shattering, I know. Whoop dee doo, right? But for me, it is progress and I'll explain why in a minute...

It happened when I was waiting for my burger to be made in my office building's cafeteria. He had ordered a burger, too, and started chatting with me while waiting for the food. He wasn't particularly attractive in my opinion and he was also dressed rather sloppily and looked disheveled which is a turn-off for me. I'm not sure if he actually works in the building as he was unfamiliar with the ordering process and where to go; there's a courthouse behind my building so people from there will often order from the cafe since it's one of only two food options available to them.

He also seemed a little socially awkward and tongue tied, which isn't the biggest deal in the world if I find a guy attractive, as sometimes they're just shy. However, I just knew immediately he wasn't someone I'd be interested in. When my food was ready I politely wished him a good weekend and left. So why am I even mentioning him at all?

Because he talked to me, and that hasn't happened in a long time. And I also took it as a sign that my vibration is changing in the direction that I want it to go. 

As anyone who's been reading my posts here for a while, for many months, I wasn't feeling very optimistic about attracting love and a relationship. Then I had that setback last weekend -- although I got over it quickly. 

All this week, I pressed forward and kept persevering with what I want in a man, how I want to feel in a relationship, and feeling really good about myself as well. I've also been finding ways to show myself more self love...as well as to be more kind and loving towards others around me. 

So when the guy showed up today, I didn't get upset at the universe. I acknowledged it and was grateful for the "manifestation", albeit not the match I desire. 

I looked at it the same way I did when I was job hunting and recruiters would reach out to me with these off-the-wall openings that were nowhere near the type of job I wanted. It meant that I was in demand and I'm sure many of these jobs could have been mine if I really wanted them. But I knew I could do better, and could get what I really wanted. 

And that's how I viewed this guy...thank you for the interest, but I know I can do better. I know I can get what I really want. 

Something else kind of cool also happened to me tonight that indicates the law of attraction works, but I think I'll save that for the next blog post. I hope everyone has an awesome holiday weekend!